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SELAIN mengumpat, satu daripada bencana yang dilakukan oleh lidah manusia ialah gurauan. Termasuk dalam istilah gurauan ini ialah kelakar, melawak, olok-olok dan berjenaka. Abdus Samad Falembani dalam kitab Hidayatus Salikin menyebut gurauan sebagai 'al-mizah'. Beliau membawa hadis Rasulullah yang bermaksud;


"Jangan engkau bantahi saudaramu dan jangan engkau perguraukan dia." (Hidayatus Salikin: 170).


Menurut Imam al-Ghazali, bergurau itu ditegah syarak kerana ia membawa kepada banyak tertawa. Banyak tertawa itu mematikan hati dan boleh 'menanggalkan' hati. Paling dahsyat, menurut beliau, ia boleh membawa atau mendorong kepada perbuatan derhaka. Ini berdasarkan hadis Rasulullah yang bermaksud;


"Seseorang lelaki yang berkata dengan suatu perkataan supaya rakannya tertawa maka dia dijatuhkan ke dalam neraka selama 70 tahun."


Imam Ghazali menasihatkan supaya manusia menjaga lidahnya daripada berkata-kata untuk menimbulkan gelak ketawa. Kata-kata gurau senda sebenarnya boleh menghilangkan malu seseorang. Ini kerana dalam mencari bahan ketawa, manusia sanggup membuat cerita bohong dan tidak munasabah. Untuk mereka-reka bahan lucu, mereka membuat cerita yang ganjil dan tidak masuk akal dan kebanyakannya cerita dusta. Inilah puncanya orang yang membuat kelakar boleh hilang malu. Pada hakikatnya malu senjata orang beriman. Malu adalah alamat atau tanda orang yang beriman. Yang paling mengaibkan, sebahagian daripada kita suka membawa cerita lucah atau separuh lucah dalam perkataan semata-mata untuk menimbulkan gelak ketawa orang lain. Rasulullah bersabda bermaksud;


"Malu adalah cabang daripada iman."


Dalam sabda lain, baginda menyatakan;


"Malu dan iman seganding. Apabila terangkat salah satu daripadanya maka terangkatlah kedua-duanya."


Dapat difahami daripada hadis ini, jika seseorang itu hilang perasaan malu daripada dirinya maka hilang jugalah imannya. Namun begitu, bergurau ala kadar dibolehkan. Bagi sesetengah orang yang tidak tahan bergurau mungkin menimbulkan persengketaan atau perkelahian. Maka ini bertentangan dengan kehendak Islam. Firman Allah bermaksud;


"Sesungguhnya orang beriman itu adalah bersaudara maka perbaikilah hubungan antara kedua-duanya." (al-Hujurat: 11).


Justeru, elakkanlah bergurau, bersenda melampaui batas perasaan atau pemikiran rasional supaya ukhuwah sesama kita tetap terpelihara.


Wallahu a'lam

61 comments:

ijoks2009 said...

Salam ustaz,
Bergurau pada asalnya tidak salah asalkan tidak melampau dan ada batas2 nya.Rasulullah s.a.w. juga suka bergurau dgn sahabatnya.
Tetapi Rasulullah tidak pernah berbohong walaupun bergurau.

Kalau boleh Ustaz ceritakan isah2 gurauan rasulullah dengan sahabat-sahabatnya.

سيف النظام بن حاج عثمان said...

Salam ijoks... benar tu. Rasulullah SAW juga pernah bergurau seperti baginda bergurau dengan seorang wanita dengan menyatakan bahawa peremuan tua tidak masuk syurga. Gurauan Rasulullah memang benar kerana di dalam syurga nanti tidak wujud wanita tua tetapi semuanya 'dimudakan' kembali. Gurau senda itu penting sekali terutama dalam rumah tangga.. antara suami, isteri dan anak-anak. Tapi yang perlu dijaga ialah agar ia tidak menjadi keterlaluan hingga menyebabkan salah satu pihak terasa hati.

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